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  • Should I ditch my writing goals for 2020?

    July 16th, 2020

    Welcome to 2020 said no one this year!

    The start of a new year usually comes with new goals or expectations for what you’d like to accomplish. As a novel writing junkie, my goals were to finish TWO of my works in progress. One of which being, FORSAKEN. A fantasy novel that I’ve been scribbling away for the last five years, only to redraft the entire thing! Another project being HERE AND THERE, a collection of short stories and flash fictions that I’ve labored off and on for a couple years (which is closer to be finished than yesterday!).

    Needless to say, as we reach the crest of the year and time has withered away before our eyes, I can say with all honesty, I’ve completed neither of these projects. That’s not to say, however, that I haven’t made strides forward on both, it’s just not progress that meets my OVERLY LARGE EXPECTATIONS nor my established goals.

    So In process of reflecting over the last few months, I’ve ditched my 2020 goals entirely and I think you should too. We’re under abnormal circumstances, meaning that things should be handled differently.

    What does this all mean?

    Goals are detrimental to actually completing tasks, at least I think so. If the goal is too big, then I like to break it down into even smaller chucks so I feel like the train is constantly moving down the tracks (even if it’s at a slow and steady pace). When we focus on the big picture, we tend to discourage ourselves from finishing.

    With that all in mind, this year has affected each of us in different ways– negatively and positively. But I’m here to say : Throw away your 2020 goals and leave them in your rear view mirror!

    Where do we go from here?

    The saying, “keeping looking forward because the past has already happened” should be the mantra you’re living right now. Even if you write ten words a day, that’s still ten words more than yesterday. Being anxious about self appointed deadlines is worthless. You should value the progress forward a lot more than the end destination. 2020 goals are so outdated! Enjoy, live life, and happily write when you want!

    Cheers,

    Alexander // the Tea Cup Writer

  • Finding the inspiration to write in the chaos of COVID-19

    July 15th, 2020

    I, for one, can say that these pesky stay at home orders have actually impacted my writing in a productive way. But for others, the stress of the unknown and the hysteria that flows through the air has done nothing than be a giant road block. The question is, how do you find the want to write when you can’t stop stressing about what’s going on around you?

    Today, I’ll discuss a few ways I’ve found it helpful to continue my writing progress without becoming distracted or overwhelmed. These proven methods have landed me 70,000 words in a two month block of time. So, it works!!

    1. A digital detox

    Yes. You heard me. Sometimes unplugging from the very source that’s driving our stress is the only way to immerse ourself back into our literary worlds. At the start of March, I found myself consuming news media while reading and writing less and less each day. I can admit openly and honestly, the fear got to me in a bad way. Once I realized how detrimental it was to my passion, I made the decision to detox entirely. In the process of a couple days I found myself refreshed and able to move back into the stories I was vigorously writing before.

    2. Read a book!

    So easy huh? But it isn’t! The world is SO DISTRACTING. How can anyone find the time to read?

    It’s quite obvious to me as a writer, that reading is extremely important. The more you read, the better writer you become. And I’ve learned first hand how true this statement is. When Covid-19 hit, I stopped reading. The result was bland and uninteresting words. That “idea” pot, as I like to call it, was drained. Actually, it was a barren wasteland. I didn’t have the constant influx of stories ideas as before when I was reading all the time and my style wasn’t improving. I like to think of reading as studying. The more exposure to other author’s styles and writing techniques, the better I can be at it. So reading helps!

    3. Clear your head

    This is often times the hardest of the four because we don’t always have a lot of extra time on our hands. Some of us juggle families, work, and other responsibilities that slow our progress done, but I have a solution for that!

    EFFECTIVE WAYS TO CLEAR YOUR HEAD
    1. Take a walk around the block
    2. Immerse yourself in the outdoors
    3. Talk with a loved one
    4. Journal about the things that clog your head

    I bet if you do any of these, you’ll come out cleaner and much more ready to put words onto the page. Perhaps, even inspired beyond your imagination!

    4. Lastly, remember why you did it all in the first place

    What made you take up the pen rather than the sword? Why was the glory of being a writer appealing to you? And what fueled your fire from the start?

    It’s self evident that chaos creates distraction. Distraction moves you further away from why you decided to become a writer in the first place.

    I get it. Self-doubt is something all people struggle with. I do, however, think that artists get an extra dose of self-doubt that others aren’t accustomed to. The equation becomes unbalanced the minute you lose sight of the reason why you started. I know, because this happened to me. The less and less I wrote, the less I felt like a writer and the more I contemplated just giving up the fantasy entirely.

    It wasn’t until I was pretty down on my spirits that I remembered what was important to me. Words were important. Telling stories were important. And showing those to the word was more important than ever. If people were sad, then I’d give them something to cheer them up! If people needed humor, I’d try making them laugh! Writing for me, has always been about moving other people and challenging others way of thinking. Convincing myself of these mission statements was what it took for me to continue forward.

    My last bit of Advice

    Don’t forget your passion. Never forget your drive. Always remember the destination ahead of you.

    Cheers,

    Alexander // the Tea Cup Writer

  • 06092019

    June 9th, 2020
    Dearest Father, 
    
    I must confess the eternal emptiness since your passing.    
    A year has faded in events that I find difficulty in comprehension.
    People swore it'd get better, but just as interest compounds, so does hurt. 
    My memory cannot allow me to forget the unresolved matters and move onward.  
    Our final words, my abrupt goodbye, and your faint dying breath. 
    I didn't want to let go of your hand. Ever. 
    I sat and studied your face. I needed to remember it in precise detail. 
    A collective of tears and tissues, we wept for our loss.
    I was selfish. I wanted you to stay and bare the pain.
    I feared that the agony of my loss was greater than that of your cancer.
    And I learned in death, it was your salvation. 
    You're no longer suffering, you're free to be.
    To roam with the buffalos, where the wind wanders.
    I reflect on life's matters ahead. 
    I practice remembering the memories with cheer.
    You are who I look up to, who I want to emulate.
    And I'll never forget who you are. 
    You're always in my heart... in life and death. 
    
    Your Loving Son 
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