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Alexander Richter

  • I Want To Write. But Why a Writer?

    June 3rd, 2019

    “And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”

    ― Sylvia Plath

    Writing is, in its truest form, a beautiful picture that you get to paint inside the heads of your readers. Before long, they will know the characters as if they’re real and believe that they too had a part in something much bigger. A real sense of belonging and purpose. But why would anyone want to spend most of their lives typing behind a computer to entertain others? Are people who have a passion for writing crazy? Is it truly worth all the hard work? 

    A passion for writing is powerful. Having the opportunity to voice your opinion, share your stories, and dream about what could be, is so fulfilling. I remember when I first discovered my interest in the subject. In college I read many fantasy books, old-fashioned literary stories, and lots of self-help books. I was hooked. The way words could be arranged on a piece of paper and have such a profoundly deep impact on the reader was like nothing I had ever experienced before. No matter where I was in life, happy or sad, scared or depressed, literature offered an escape.

    Some of the toughest moments in my life were medicated with a good book. As funny as this may be to admit, books saved my life. I no longer felt alone because Harry Potter felt alone too. I no longer felt like a directionless compass because Gandalf taught us, “Not all those who wander are lost.” Words are fantastic things. You write them about people and they can hurt. Words can admit joy, laughter, and sometimes even tears. All of these feelings I felt compelled to share with others. If you as a writer can capture their emotions and take them along with you on a journey outside of their norm, then you’ve truly succeeded. Replacing the chaos in everyday life with an emotion that makes them feel better about themselves is something special.

    Unfortunately, being able to do that as a writer is super difficult. It’s often even more so embarrassing because you have to be terrible at it, before you can be any good. There is no “he/she was just born with it,” you actually have to work your butt off to learn all the rules, all the genres, and most importantly, the practice of writing. You have to write when you want to sleep, write when you’d rather be on vacation, and write even when you don’t have the urge to do so. What separates a true writer from those who just love the idea is discipline. You need to set routines, schedules, goals and keep to them strictly. First rule you need to learn is to not put all your eggs into one basket. You’re most likely not going to write a hit novel your first time. (Boy did I have a tough time with this one. I believed I had a gold mine story, and then three years later I was still working on it. I excused my behavior with the normal statements, but the idea itself wasn’t very compelling to anyone other than me.)

    So why choose to write you ask? Writing seems extremely difficult to be any good at it and it is not the most prestigious career to fall into, but the freedom is worth it. In the private or public sector of work you’re told what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. It’s incredibly difficult to infuse new ideas into a system that has worked for so many years, but the truth is not everyone is the same. Having a free thinking mind is powerful. You pick the direction you want to focus on, and you choose when the world will see that vision. If you want to stop midway through your project and work on something else, you’re certainly entitled to. What a beauty that is? Fantasy one month or a murder mystery the next. The possibilities are truly endless.

    As a writer you will challenged yourself to always be the best you can be. You will fail a lot, something that I myself am waiting to figure out. You’ll be rejected by many. But if you are to make one person happy with your writing then the rest will melt away. Always have faith that you can achieve the impossible, because if you don’t, no one can.

    I want to leave you with one more inspirational quote for you to think about, and remind you one more thing. The sword is just as mighty as the pen like Edward Bulwer- Lytton said, and I believe, even more so influential.

    Cheers,

    Alexander

  • Amazon Original Series Review: Catastrophe

    April 22nd, 2019

    Reading Length: 5 minutes

    Synopsis

    Catastrophe stars Rob Delaney and Sharon Horgan as Rob and Sharon, two people from different cultures. Rob is an American businessman whereas Sharon is an Irish primary teacher living in London.

    Rob comes to London on a business trip and bumps into Sharon on a late night. They quickly start to acquire a liking for each other, and decide to mess around for a couple days, no strings attached. But quickly, strings do become attached as Sharon realizes she’s pregnant.

    Catastrophe follows Rob and Sharon maneuvering parenthood together while they clash culturally, and face problems from each other’s past.

    Catastrophe runs 4 seasons with Rob Delaney and Sharon Horgan as writers and actors starring.

    My thoughts

    After watching all four seasons of Catastrophe, I would say that this show is brilliant! And it’s brilliant on so many levels. The humor is always present. The dynamic between Rob and Sharon is exciting. They bounce jokes and humor off of each other in a way that’s interesting to watch. Many times I had to pause the show just to laugh. The humor is a mix of American and British, which for those who are not accustomed to, can take some getting used to.

    Rob

    The character of Rob is one I admired greatly. He, at times, doesn’t know what to do with his life. He struggles with being a father, and a good husband in the twenty-first century whilst battling an alcohol addiction. I think that Rob’s character is a great representation of many twenty-first century men. His level of humanity made the character much more relatable to watch.

    Sharon

    Sharon is down right hilarious. Her Irish accent and Irish heritage make her easy to like. She’s pretty bad ass. She’s the coolest teacher you wish you’d had growing up, and has a carefree mindset that constantly gets her into tight situations.

    The Core of Catastrophe 

    Even though I did not write this show, Catastrophe really thrives on its honesty, and I believe that’s what the show was really written to show.

    The picture television shows paint these days is always a perfect one. Everyone lives in beautiful homes, drives awesome cars, and never seems to have to work. Seriously, no one in TV ever goes to work. Are they even normal people? The answer is no, they are not normal people.

    However, Catastrophe is the complete opposite. It does feature people who have money struggles, don’t drive awesome cars, and live a pretty normal life.

    Catastrophe’s success is built off the idea that these people are very accurate representations of the real world.

    They’re faced with scenarios that we all encounter in our day-to-day lives. They hit rock bottom, fight and argue, and mess up constantly.

    It’s easy to sit back and watch an episode play out, and think “yeah, I’ve been there before” or “I can relate to that”.

    Seasons 1-4

    I’ve seen more often than not, that the longer a show runs, the more watered down it becomes. After a couple seasons, people leave and faces change but in Catastrophe that’s not the case.

    The show starts on a high note, and indeed ends that way too.

    Although I would enjoy more seasons, I believe it was a great decision to end at season 4.

    You probably should call it quits before it totally starts to suck.

    Overall, I would greatly recommend watching this show. If you’re looking for something that will make you laugh and something you can actually relate to, Catastrophe is that show.

    Let me know how you enjoyed the show.

    Thanks,

    Alexander

    Image listed is property of Amazon Prime.

  • Can a Long Distance Relationship Really Work?

    April 10th, 2019

    What society says about it  

    A long distance relationship, statistically, shouldn’t work.

    Many people will agree with that statistic enough to be skeptically when a relationship, as such, enters their lives.

    They’re scared, can’t commit the effort, or don’t believe in that person enough to take the chance.

    Now don’t get me wrong, a long distance relationship can be hard work. It was hard for both my wife and I, but we were both committed to making it work. Loving each other was enough for us to continue to pour effort in.

    Don’t let statistics decide your life for you

    When I met my wife she lived one-hundred miles away from me. Although that computes to roughly two hours of freeway driving, we never let that stop us. We commuted for a year and a half, and on several days a week. It never felt like a chore to us either. It was the one thing, I can honestly say, that I looked forward to most.

    I remember driving home at 1:00 am sometimes, barely awake. I had to open the window, turn the music up very loud, or eat snacks to stay awake.

    In the process of all the driving, I learned what love truly was, and how strong I felt that for her.

    Because you’re putting in so much effort, it’s a different kind of relationship that you’ll experience, nothing like you’ve ever known before. There’s a passion that burns inside you for the other person.

    Things will work if you want them to work

    I’m a firm believer that if you truly want a relationship with someone to work, it will. Distance won’t be enough to deny any chemistry that lies between you two.

    You’ll compromise on seeing your friends, cancel plans, or spontaneously take a trip to see the other person. It comes down to you making a choice.

    A choice between risking everything, or doing what statistics say and accepting that it won’t work.

    People will never understand why you’re doing what you’re doing and that’s okay. You don’t have to try to explain the feeling to them.

    Only someone who is in a long distance relationship will understand.

    You will come to a crossroad

    In every long distance relationship you will come to a crossroad, where one of you will have to decide to make a compromise. Someone will have to move closer to continue to make the relationship work.

    In most cases it’s an easy decision, one that you’ve both thought quite extensively about. You both often fantasize about it.

    Moving closer is a big step because you may be leaving something behind in the process. Family, friends, a sense of comfort.

    It is the riskiest move in the entire relationship, and unfortuneately, at this point everyone will think you’re absolutely crazy. Crazy for what you’re doing. Crazy for what you might be giving up to move.

    When I moved to my wife, people thought I was crazy and that I wasn’t being realistic, but that never changed my mind. It was the best decision that I’ve ever made in my life.

    Yes it can work

    At the end of the day, a long distance relationship can work. Just remember these five points:

    1. Be open and honest with your partner
    2. Know what the next step in your relationship is
    3. Support each other when it’s difficult
    4. Put as much effort into the relationship as possible

    and finally….

    5. Don’t listen to other peoples opinions

    All these points are reasons why you should not give up on someone who is a long distance away from you.

    I never did, and on March 10th, 2019, after three years, I married my best friend.

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